a peek into my life: snippets of joy

Taken from Alan Yip’s Funtastic Parenting.

Today, before you say an unkind word, think of someone who can’t speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food, think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife, think of someone who’s crying out for a companion.

Today, before you complain about life, think of those who may have died before their time.

Before whining about the distance you drive, think of those who walk the same distance on foot.

When you are tired and complain about your job, think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

And, when depressing thoughts seem to get you down, put a smile on your face and think: you’re alive and still around for a reason.

My thoughts:

No, I didn’t inflict ‘pain’ on others. More often, it’s the other way round. From husband, my mum, inlaws, and even some of my friends. Unkind or hurtful words are the last I wish to hear.

I didn’t do well in this area.

Hmm….I think I make a better mother instead.

We can only make changes in our life, for better or worse. No one knows. But I know i have tried for Zann’s sake.

I only whine about the distance I need to walk to reach my destination, the time taken while waiting for bus and MRT.

I would quit if the working environment is not for me. No point complaining.

I am still trying! Being an optimistic person is not easy for a negative person like me.

She was busy cutting and coloring when I walked into her room.

She told me that she is making a card for me.

“Daddy’s birthday is coming. Let’s make a card for Daddy too.”
“I don’t want. Daddy not good.”

I failed to make her change her mind.

The last day of 2009 ended with a kitchen mishap. It could not have happen without me  being so careless and forgetful. But I was really thankful nothing serious happened. Yes, I have learnt my lesson.

Looking back, there were many changes. Good and Bad. From my decision to move out to my relationship with my mum. The unplanned move has also brought a lot of unpleasant surprises. I didn’t want to think and dwell onto it anymore.

Second year into my job, I admit I love to work with children. I love it’s flexi hours. I love that it’s even near my place. But I wish to move on. I’m still weighing the other options.

Zann is starting her new term in a new centre. She knows and reacted strongly when I told her she won’t be seeing her peers anymore. I don’t know how long it takes her to adjust.  But I really hope she gets to learn more effectively.

For now, Happy New Year, everyone ! I hope 2010 brings happiness and peace to all of us.

I could not imagine what would have happen to me and Zann if I didn’t wake up in time to turn off the unlit stove ! My neighbours from upstairs saw the smoke and called the police. It’s a scary experience. Thank GOD nothing serious happened to us.

When Bro Ace called to arrange for a lunch meet-up today, the gift exchange didn’t cross my mind. So when he said he had something for me, I panicked ! Because I didn’t prepare anything. Aiyo, in the end I bought him something which I would hate to receive. Oh well, it’s the thought that counts, and he doesn’t mind

Have a wonderful blessed Christmas !